I just finished writing on this somewhat vulnerable & personal topic that I’ve been wanting to share with you all for a while now... and I’m finally ready to share it here with you today.

Or rather, we’re ready to share it... meaning myself and my partner Keegan who I’m recording an entire podcast episode with about it.💙

Over a year into our relationship, Keegan realized that he is on the asexuality spectrum. This is our story.

After 3 years and a lot of love and even more tears, I'm celebrating that I'm now officially certified as a VITA Sex, Love, & Relationship Coach... but the story I'm sharing here is also embarrassing AF, and yet also about finding the true meaning of generosity and the kind of coach I've become because of it all.

About a year ago I did something that I knew in my gut was not right, and had to face the reality of whose life I was trying to live…

My experience of non-monogamy is not a lifelong orientation, it was a conscious choice I made when I realized that the paradigm I’d been handed for love & relationship was based on a model of domination and control. When I woke up to that reality I decided that I’d rather live in a paradigm of partnership, care, and collaboration.

In this blog let’s chat about unshaming politics, wtf that has to do with non-monogamy, and how you can expect me to respond in times of crisis.

How can we love unconditionally in a world that is overrun with dynamics that praise domination, manipulation, and control? Michaela explores what it means to truly love unconditionally & invites an idea of how we can get there.