The Polyam Dating + Relationship Coach
Ready to build the new paradigm relationships of your dreams?
I help you rewrite the narratives about love & relationship that hold you back from building massive trust in yourself and those you love… so you can date, relate, and live from the sovereignty of your heart’s true path.
love free + have wild sex
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love free + have wild sex ♡
Want to liberate the most authentic expression of your love and sex life and feel confident to go create it?
Get my free meditation practice!
Some Offerings
Coaching ♡ Love Redefined
REWRITE YOUR VERSION OF HAPPILY EVER AFTER
For polyamorous individuals, couples, throuples, polycules, & more who are so over feeling lost in their love & sex lives and ready to write themselves into a new narrative of ‘Poly & Thriving’.
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Dynamic Community Events
Liberating in-person events and retreats for your polycule, team, or community weaving transformational community processes, forum, sacred theater, tantra, breathwork, dynamic yoga classes, and more to deepen and expand the capacity to love & be loved exactly as we are.
and one more!
more this way!
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Buti® Yoga Classes
MT SHASTA, CALIFORNIA
The only way to transform your body in a sustainable way is to fall in LOVE with your workout + wellness lifestyle. Buti® Yoga isn’t a workout; it’s a chance to create, let go, connect, and sweat with intention. Every time you step on your mat, you break through the emotional or physical barriers to set yourself free. This calorie-scorching workout fuses power yoga with cardio-intensive tribal dance + body sculpting movement.
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Don't just take my word for it!
Peep the transformations!
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"I could envision having love that includes the physical, intellectual, and spiritual connection that I crave."
After working with Michaela I got out of black & white thinking, felt way more open, adventurous, and could envision having love that includes the physical, intellectual, and spiritual connection that I crave. I loved her creative toolset, the grounding, the parts work that she led me in, and her joy, positivity, and open inquiry.
✷ Ember, Bay Area
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"One of the best decisions I have ever made, I wholeheartedly recommend her!"
I am so grateful for Michaela!
With deep attunement, embodied wisdom and precise support her work has brought me into vital changes in my health and love life. With her mentoring I have activated several key habit changes as well as moving forward significantly with my life goals.
Each session was empowering, profoundly encouraging and rich with effective wellbeing practices and advanced love skills. One of the best decisions I have made.. I wholeheartedly recommend her!
✷ Sheya Gracewind
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"I would love to work with her again!"
Michaela was a treat to work with! I appreciated her mind/body connection and patience with me as I worked through some relationship hurdles. She simply guided and never forced opinions or directives. I would love to work with her again!
✷ Erin B, Arizona
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"I learned more about sexuality & dating in one hour than I have in the last 5 years."
I had been looking to accept this aspect of myself [desire] purely mentally and spiritually and not checking in physically… I learned more [about sexuality & dating] in one hour than I have in the last 5 years. Thank you so much Michaela for sharing space with me, my gratitude cannot be expressed enough!
✷ Gordon
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"She opened my eyes to the connection between our bodies and emotions... she is gifted in her ability to help."
I want to give Michaela an excellent recommendation. I am a California licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. It is hard as a therapist to open up and do your own work. I had been harboring resentment towards a family member. I was wondering if I was ever going to be able to forgive. Michaela did a very good job of listening and then presenting session exercises that helped me look at how this resentment was affecting me. She opened my eyes to "somatic" issues and the connection between our bodies and emotions. I really appreciate working with her and believe that she is gifted in her ability to help.
✷ Jamie B, Seattle
hi there!
My name is Michaela
I’m a Sex, Love, & Relationship Coach, a Kuala Tantra and BUTI Yoga Teacher, and I draw upon my work in the Shamanic Arts and ZEGG Forum to create dynamic 1:1 and group experiences that liberate your true love nature from the inside out.
MY MISSION?
To help consensual non-monogamy become normalized and celebrated by rooting the concept of a New Poly Paradigm into our present day reality.
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The archetypal standard that encompasses all the unique and diverse ways that people truly desire to love, fuck, and commit to one another. The NPP serves as a pattern disrupt for the old paradigm of ‘monogamy as the assumptive norm’. It presents a new set of values, concepts, and practices for the community at large to help embrace a reality where healthy expressions of love, sex, and relationships are created from the unique desires, needs, and dreams of the very people who create them.