Beyond Norms. Beyond Labels. Build the Love Life That Liberates You.
High-touch support & facilitation for the sovereign lovers, polyamorous, non-monogamous, paradigm shifters, and those called to create love, sex, & devotion on their own terms.
Remember what your heart always knew was possible…
✶Inner relational authority fully activated — love & intimacy, on your terms
✶Commitments to self and beloveds solid — a relational blueprint so potent it dissolves old paradigms like magic
✶Rupture, jealousy, and desire transmuted into trust — shame rewritten into a love life so true to you it makes your soul weep
Want to liberate the most authentic expression of your love and sex life and feel confident to go create it?
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Meet Michaela
Walking permission slip. Paradigm shifter. Devoted guide to sovereign love.
I’m Michaela Rose Soleil — Polyamorous Dating & Relationship Coach for humans at the edge of evolution in love.
I help individuals, couples, and relationship constellations reimagine love, sex, and connection from the inside out — through truth, trust, and transformation.
My work is rooted in my training as a VITA™ Sex Love, & Relationship coach, emotional & energetic sovereignty, and a depth of wisdom from over a decade of study & practice in the realms of tantra, meditation, yoga, & free love communities around the world.
If you’ve ever felt like the reality you’ve been handed didn’t make space for the way you love... I see you. & You’re in the right place.
My Services
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SOVEREIGN Dating & Relationship Coaching
SOVEREIGN LOVE BEGINS HERE.
High-touch, bespoke coaching containers for individuals, couples, and relationship constellations at the edge of evolution in love.
This is where rupture becomes revelation, desires become direction, and connection becomes a devotional path — designed on your terms.
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Custom Events & Retreats
TRUTH IS THE ELIXIR THAT SETS US FREE.
These sacred gatherings—with ZEGG Forum as the glue—invite polycules, teams, and communities to shed performance and speak from the heart. Each experience is a potent fusion of emotional transparency, embodied witnessing, and relational alchemy, woven with sacred theater, tantra, breathwork, dynamic yoga, and transformational community practices to deepen trust, connection, and collective resilience.
more this way!
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Buti® Yoga Classes
MT SHASTA, CALIFORNIA
The only way to transform your body in a sustainable way is to fall in LOVE with your workout + wellness lifestyle. Buti® Yoga isn’t a workout; it’s a chance to create, let go, connect, and sweat with intention. Every time you step on your mat, you break through the emotional or physical barriers to set yourself free. This calorie-scorching workout fuses power yoga with cardio-intensive tribal dance + body sculpting movement.
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Don't just take my word for it!
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Peep the transformations!
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"I could envision having love that includes the physical, intellectual, and spiritual connection that I crave."
After working with Michaela I got out of black & white thinking, felt way more open, adventurous, and could envision having love that includes the physical, intellectual, and spiritual connection that I crave. I loved her creative toolset, the grounding, the parts work that she led me in, and her joy, positivity, and open inquiry.
✷ Ember, Bay Area
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"One of the best decisions I have ever made, I wholeheartedly recommend her!"
I am so grateful for Michaela!
With deep attunement, embodied wisdom and precise support her work has brought me into vital changes in my health and love life. With her mentoring I have activated several key habit changes as well as moving forward significantly with my life goals.
Each session was empowering, profoundly encouraging and rich with effective wellbeing practices and advanced love skills. One of the best decisions I have made.. I wholeheartedly recommend her!
✷ Sheya Gracewind
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"I would love to work with her again!"
Michaela was a treat to work with! I appreciated her mind/body connection and patience with me as I worked through some relationship hurdles. She simply guided and never forced opinions or directives. I would love to work with her again!
✷ Erin B, Arizona
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"I learned more about sexuality & dating in one hour than I have in the last 5 years."
I had been looking to accept this aspect of myself [desire] purely mentally and spiritually and not checking in physically… I learned more [about sexuality & dating] in one hour than I have in the last 5 years. Thank you so much Michaela for sharing space with me, my gratitude cannot be expressed enough!
✷ Gordon
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"She opened my eyes to the connection between our bodies and emotions... she is gifted in her ability to help."
I want to give Michaela an excellent recommendation. I am a California licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. It is hard as a therapist to open up and do your own work. I had been harboring resentment towards a family member. I was wondering if I was ever going to be able to forgive. Michaela did a very good job of listening and then presenting session exercises that helped me look at how this resentment was affecting me. She opened my eyes to "somatic" issues and the connection between our bodies and emotions. I really appreciate working with her and believe that she is gifted in her ability to help.
✷ Jamie B, Seattle
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"Michaela helped me get to more of a place of empathy and see how we could move forward."
Grateful that coaching led me in the direction of realizing he wasn’t my partner. Michaela helped me get to more of a place of empathy and see how we could move forward. I realized that I needed to stand up for myself and see that he was never going to change and be the partner I deserved… [when I made that decision] I finally felt free & happy.
✷ Sam in Jackson, WY
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“We are capable of navigating challenges with curiosity & finding our way back to love.”
“We had topics that were really challenging to have non-triggered conversations about—loss, ENM, and unmet needs. Michaela was able to hold a really safe container for some of our hardest conversations, which led to a much deeper understanding of each other and a lot more compassion.
It opened up space for us to talk through painful experiences—ones where I had previously been the only one to share the impact. We both felt so much clarity and insight through our sessions. I got to truly understand what my partner was experiencing.
Michaela’s ability to zoom in, support one of us in being deeply seen, and then guide the other into new clarity was powerful. We left knowing we are incredibly capable of navigating challenges with curiosity and finding our way back to love.”
✷ Rebecca, Denmark
